My name is Marijke and I am addicted to action.

I mean, it feels soooo good to get things done.

Science tells me it's true. Completing tasks activates the same short-term feel good dopamine circuitry that underpins other forms of addiction.

But, as I’ve mentioned before - all that doing is not necessary. The thrill of “getting things done” is often the shitty consolation prize for not getting what we actually want.

I probably couldn’t, nor do I want to, rid myself of my bias for action.

But I know this bias serves me well only when it isn’t always in charge, and it isn’t the only voice in my head.

One antidote action addiction that I know is totally a good choice even while I resist it...a little time doing nothing.

Important Note: Scrolling through your phone, binge watching TV, reading, doing chores... this is all doing something, not nothing.

Naturally, as I pull a classic Marijke and make "doing nothing" hard, I'm coming across a slew of articles preaching the importance of doing nothing.

Here are a few I recommend:

Science Says It’s Essential To Make Time To Do Nothing

  • “The brain requires “downtime”—unstructured time with no goal in mind and no targeted focus of attention.”

  • Also helpful: this article offers some downtime examples, which I confess I needed.

Why Doing Nothing is Actually One of the Best Things You Can Do

  • The article totally gets me by including an important section on: “How to not try too hard at doing nothing.”

The Importance of Doing Nothing

  • For specific workplace/leadership examples.

The Benefits of Resting & How to Unplug

  • Are you a beginner at this rest idea…maybe still need a little convincing that it won’t interfere with your productivity & success?

  • This article is a simple primer of the main reasons why doing nothing is good for you.

May you find some time this week to do nothing my dear one!

Love,

Marijke Ocean

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